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<\/p>\nI decided to watch a football match calmly, without tying myself to home and parental obligations. He didn’t want to put screaming children to sleep at all.<\/p>\n
However, this evening everything was destined to change after slamming the door, the woman left, losing patience. <\/p>\n
The children stayed with their father. Peaceful male world with beer on the sofa suddenly turned upside down. That’s what the husband wrote to his wife a couple of days ago.<\/p>\n
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\u2018My dear,\u2019
\nA couple of days ago we had a fight. I came home, collapsed from exhaustion. It was 8 o’clock in the evening, and I just wanted to fall on the couch and watch the match.<\/p>\n
You were in a bad mood and terribly tired too. The children were fighting, and the baby was screaming while you were putting him to sleep.<\/p>\n
I made it louder so as not to hear anything.\u2019You won’t die if you help a little and contribute to the education of children?\u2019 you asked, beautiful sound.<\/p>\n
I answered annoyed. \u2018I worked all day so that you could stay at home all the time and play in a doll’s house.\u2019<\/p>\n
A quarrel began, one by one the arguments collapsed. You cried because you were tired and angry. <\/p>\n
I talked to you a lot. You shouted that you can’t do that anymore. Then you ran out of the house and left me alone with the children.<\/p>\n
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I had to feed them dinner myself and put them to sleep. You didn’t come back the next day. I took a day off from work and stayed at home with the children.<\/p>\n
I went through all the tears and complaints.I ran around the house all day, not even having a free minute to take a bath.<\/p>\n
I warmed milk, dressed children and washed the kitchen at the same time.I was locked at home for a whole day, unable to talk to a person over the age of 10.<\/p>\n
I didn’t have the opportunity to sit down at the table and enjoy the food. I had to watch the children all the time.<\/p>\n
I felt such exhaustion that I could sleep for 20 hours without interruption. But this is impossible, because the baby wakes up and screams every three hours.<\/p>\n
I lived without you for two days and one night. I understood everything.I realized how tired you are.I understood to be a mother is a permanent victim.<\/p>\n
I realized that it is much more difficult than sitting in the office for 10 hours and making serious financial decisions.<\/p>\n
I understood you sacrificed your career and material freedom in order to be close to your children.<\/p>\n
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I understood how difficult it is when your financial situation depends not on you, but on your partner.<\/p>\n
I understood what you sacrifice when you refuse to go with your friends to a party or to the gym. You simply can’t do your favorite thing or even sleep.<\/p>\n
I understood that you feel when you are locked in a castle with children, and you miss everything that is happening around you.<\/p>\n
I understood why you are offended when my mother criticizes your education methods. No one understands children better than their mother.<\/p>\n
I understood that mothers bear the greatest responsibility in society. Unfortunately, no one appreciates or extols this.<\/p>\n
I am writing you this letter not just to tell you how much I miss you. I don’t want one more day to pass without these words.<\/p>\n
\u2018You are very brave, you are doing great, and I admire you!\u2019<\/p>\n