Julia Roberts is adored by millions of fans around the world charming, talented, stylish. Her name does not leave the gossip columns,

but most of the ‘news’ about her personal life is rumor and speculation. For example, over the past three years, she and her husband have ‘divorced’ several times.

The point is that the actress like a real ‘mother bear’ protects her husband and three children from the annoying attention of the paparazzi.

All that reporters know about her marriage to Daniel Moder is that they met on the set of The Mexican and dated for two years before getting married.

After that, they … almost never saw each other. And not at all because Julia and Daniel have a bad life or are tired of each other.

This is the decision of two spouses not to let outsiders into their family and relationship.
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age of 51, Julia Roberts decided to lift the veil and tell the truth about her 17-year marriage with Moder.

‘I think it can only be compared to the mighty tectonic shift of us meeting Danny and then getting married,’ Roberts admitted.

‘It seems that the country was divided. I immediately understood that my life would change forever, and everything would be completely different than before.’

Julia Roberts’ life really changed in July 2002. It was then that she married cinematographer Daniel Moder.

In November 2004, the couple had twins: a girl, Hazel Patricia, and a boy, Phineas Walter. The delivery took place 4 weeks before the due date, but there were no complications.

And four years later, in June 2007, Julia gave birth to a boy named Henry Daniel Moder. According to the actress, she is as happy as ever. And all this thanks to a fateful meeting with a loved one.

By the way, when Roberts and Moder met, both were not free. Julia was in a relationship with Miss Congeniality star Benjamin Bratt,

and Danny was married to make-up artist Vera Steimberg. Therefore, before meeting seriously, they had to ‘deal with’ previous connections.

‘Daniel broke up with Vera before our affair. I didn’t know anything about it and I didn’t even know.

I did exactly the same thing: I said goodbye to my previous partner. This was a necessary condition for starting life from ‘zero’.

I think that is what contributed to the fact that we fell in love with each other and decided to be together.

Because the double life is not about us,’ Julia Roberts told Oprah Winfrey in 2003. ‘I mean, when we got

together, it was a union of totally free people who did the incredible: they changed each other’s worlds.’

When Julia Roberts was asked how the couple got along on set, she laughed. ‘Oh, I feel completely free and relaxed during filming.

How can it be otherwise when these guys see you at 5 in the morning as you step over some lighting cable and exclaim,

It is at moments like these that you understand who is worth what. You see people for who they really are, both good and bad. So I was immediately convinced that Danny was really handsome.’

By the way, Julia Roberts is very decent in everyday life and has always preferred to lead a modest life.

Therefore, she and her future husband decided not to have a lavish wedding. Both the ceremony itself and the engagement were extremely simple.

Julia preferred a simple emerald ring bought in an ordinary shopping center. Instead of a luxurious wedding dress, the actress wore a simple pink cotton dress.

A year after the wedding, Julia Roberts said: ‘I confess that now I am happier than ever. I did not even suspect that this happens in reality, and not in fairy tales. This is exactly what I have always dreamed of.

I really found my ‘refuge’ in this life. And to a greater extent thanks to a happy marriage. Only now I have discovered a new world, a new life.

I am surrounded by people I love with all my heart, little joys that fill every day. I am surrounded by happiness…’

In order to somehow influence the news about them, Julia Roberts, at the insistence of her children, even started keeping an Instagram page. ‘This allows you to somehow control what’s going on.

I don’t lead a ‘showy’ life, but I post some photos, write some things so that dishonest journalists don’t spread dirty gossip about my family and children.

I am open and friendly with my subscribers, but I follow the boundaries of privacy.There are those that no one is allowed to cross.

So, the famous couple, Julia Roberts and Daniel Moder chose secrecy. And it does not mean at all that

they have left each other. They just value their feelings and their children’s happiness too much to let someone ruin it.

Every now and then, beautiful photos and their beautiful captions are what the curious public can count on.

But everything else belongs exclusively to them. This is their world and their happiness. The entry of outsiders is prohibited.

Has the life of the star couple changed after the birth of twins and a son? Julia Roberts says not at all.

When it comes to raising children, she says it all happens as naturally and without anger as picking out a towel at the store.

‘All couples need to understand that marriage and parenting are daily choices that keep the wheels of marriage turning.

And it is no less important than buying real estate, etc. Therefore, each election should be approached honestly, but without unnecessary pathos and drama. It’s a lot simpler than we like to imagine.’

‘Many years have passed, but Danny really is still my favorite person. I am interested in everything he says, I consult him, I listen to his opinion.

I think we’re both really, really lucky. Although nothing out of the ordinary has happened, we just love and genuinely enjoy each other’s company.

‘We have been married for 17 years, we met 19 years ago,’ says the actress. ‘Over the years, everything becomes much deeper and more complex. You know how it goes in youth.

‘Oh, we love each other. Let’s get married, build a house, have children.’ These are all things that everyone dreams of,

but we don’t know what anyone likes. Would you like the same sofa for the living room or patterned towels for the bathroom?

‘And here, of course, whether we’re talking about marriage or parenthood, a philosophical approach to life comes to the rescue,’ continued Julia.

Don’t hurry, don’t hesitate. Don’t jump to conclusions. Yes, you don’t know how everything will turn out in marriage,

but there is always a chance to ‘draw a lucky ticket’. I’m sure Danny and I are really lucky. There is an invisible harmony in everything we do. This man is the best decision I’ve ever made in my life.’

Of course, it was not without difficulties. Everywhere journalists are constantly spreading news that the star couple has separated or is on the verge of divorce.

Julia Roberts says that she and her husband do not pay attention to such nonsense. The only thing is

that they try to make sure that these conversations do not affect the children in any way. And they usually succeed.

‘Sometimes my husband and kids are just shopping at the grocery store, and suddenly I notice a bunch of paparazzi behind the shelves.

Honestly, it’s very annoying. Unhealthy publicity can affect our feelings and family happiness,

so I try to stay away from journalists as much as possible. I really value our happiness, so I will never let anyone take it away from us,’ says Julia.